For the first 50 years of my life, my perfectionist self mistakenly believed it was all about knowing more, getting it right, planning, attempting to prevent bad things from happening, and keeping all of my chicks in a row. It took me this long to discover that the JOURNEY is all that matters. This quote from Gilda Radner sums it all up:

"I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next.
"


Monday, January 11, 2016

A Very Special Visitor

We had a very special first-time visitor to our home last week.  
I was a little nervous because I wasn't sure how he would be 
received by the rest of the family.  He's lived an isolated life,
with very few friends, and has never traveled away from home.
To be totally honest,   I didn't know if he would even venture out 
of his bedroom!

His flight went well, even though he was a little nervous
going through security at the airport.  He flew into
Laguardia airport with Kerry.  Vance picked them up
and brought them home.

Just as I expected, he spent the first day in his room,
and he was very nervous.  We respected that
and visited him there, trying not to overwhelm him.

One more thing.  While he was here,  
I was often referred to as
"Grandma Gayle".


It's Fletcher!  Kerry's cat!


The reason I was so uncertain of his visit was 
because he had never been around dogs before.
And I didn't think my cats would welcome another feline
into the house.  At least not without a fight.


We let him out of Kerry's room when the other animals were outside.
But they spotted him.


And he spotted them.


We introduced him to each of the dogs by bringing them
into the bedroom where he was comfortable.
He was curious and appropriately afraid, but he
got close enough to sniff them.  The dogs were
very well behaved.


But in the end,  that's as close as they got.  We decided to keep 
the animals separated for the entire week he was here.


We took him for a walk outside on his leash (he's an indoor cat).
He looked very handsome!


It was a very cold, windy day.  He was shivering but that didn't
stop him from exploring.  He loved chasing the leaves
being tossed around by the gusty wind.









Mel drove over to see him (and us).



I very much enjoyed taking his picture while he was here.


He didn't mind at all.




Momo was clueless that Fletcher was even in the house.
(Way to go, Momo!)


We brought them back to the airport on Sunday morning.


He is a very good traveler!


He needed to stay in his carrier on the plane,
but he just slept the whole way home to Nashville.

We love Fletcher, and we look forward to spending much more time
with him soon. Possibly, in the near future, his mom may
relocate back home to CT. 

Oh yes,  and we look forward to seeing much more of Kerry too! 

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