For the first 50 years of my life, my perfectionist self mistakenly believed it was all about knowing more, getting it right, planning, attempting to prevent bad things from happening, and keeping all of my chicks in a row. It took me this long to discover that the JOURNEY is all that matters. This quote from Gilda Radner sums it all up:

"I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next.
"


Tuesday, February 12, 2019

I Am Her Person



This is a picture of me with my cat, Maddie, when she was a young kitten.

I love Maddie so much, even if she is
feisty,
strong-willed,
unpredictable,
short-tempered,
and 
some would say
mean.

She is a one-person cat,
and I am that person.

She makes me laugh every day,
and makes me angry every day.

She does many weird and exasperating things,
but her favorite pastime is sitting inside things.


She especially loves boxes.


It doesn't matter the size


or the shape.





But when there isn't a box handy, 
she makes do.

And it always makes me laugh and grab my camera.


A Christmas sleigh basket.


My weed cart in the garden.


The catnip planter on the porch.


The shoe bin.


The stryrofoam packaging from a lamp.


An empty gift basket.


A larger empty gift basket.


A waste basket.


Any basket, really.


A shopping bag.


A grocery bag.


A bubble-wrap bag.


A school bag.


A travel bag.


The bathroom sink.



Any bowl.


Even a lasagna pan.



She gets inside just about anything.




And sometimes she doesn't need walls at all.

I think it's important to feel loved, understood, and appreciated
by at least one person in this world.


I'm glad I can be Maddie's special person.

Thursday, February 7, 2019

Oh, What a Weekend!


Weekends in our house tend to be pretty laid back lately.
But last weekend our house came alive with activity,
and 
IT WAS WONDERFUL.


The main event was to celebrate Annie's 24th birthday.

In addition, circumstances also brought 
other friends and loved ones to our home
to gather around our table
and
to enjoy each other's company.


On Friday,  we welcomed my niece, Mikey, and her husband, Lance,
along with their close friends, Molly & Tyler.  Kaylee was visiting
from Utah.  Mel, Josh, and Emily are just part of our family.

Saturday morning began with a private yoga session with Mel.
This was followed by lunch at our house and a few
competitive games of duck pin bowling!



After dinner at the Flatbread Company,
we headed home for Annie's birthday celebration.














Vance broke out his grade school trumpet for an
unforgettable version of "Happy Birthday".







There were many lovely and thoughtful gifts, but none
could compare with the hand-drawn piece of art by  
Vincent Vance Gogh Vance!


I want to wish Annie a very happy 24th birthday!

I also want to say that 
Vance and I feel so privileged to be surrounded these
happy and loving young couples who have so much
ahead of them in their life journey.

We hope to be there with you and for you 
for many years to come!