For the first 50 years of my life, my perfectionist self mistakenly believed it was all about knowing more, getting it right, planning, attempting to prevent bad things from happening, and keeping all of my chicks in a row. It took me this long to discover that the JOURNEY is all that matters. This quote from Gilda Radner sums it all up:

"I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next.
"


Sunday, May 6, 2012

My Expressive Daughter - Again

I told you a few posts ago that my secret goal at track meets
 this year is to capture Annie's facial expressions. 

Here are a few from the last meet!




And the winning expression of the day...


In case you're wondering, Annie really does participate in the track meet -
when she's not talking!

Friday, May 4, 2012

In-Bread Meme

Meme: An internet phenomenon or a meme is an image, video, phrase or simply an idea that spreads from one person to another seemingly for no logical reason at all.
 
Last night, my daughter Kerry told me lookup "cat breading" on google images.
I said "Don't you mean breeding?"
She affirmed she really meant "breading".

I did, and I couldn't believe what I found!










So, today Kerry and I set out to "bread" our cats.

It's not as simple as it sounds.

Our initial attempts on Maddie failed horribly.
The bread broke as she tried to get away!


So we decided it would be better to toast the bread.


She REALLY  didn't want to have anything to do with it!
The toast fell to the floor and Sami ran off with it, followed by Halle
close on his heels!  She wanted him to share!

After she tasted the toast, Halle asked to be breaded too!

We succeeded in breading Momo (or I should say "toasting")
but Maddie was too jacked up to try again.

We waited until she was taking a nap.
Then,

Another successful breading!

Did you know there is an APP on iTunes called "Breaded Cats"?

I tried it out...

There have been many other internet "memes"
such as

Oolong the Pancake Rabbit

Oolong the Pancake Rabbit


Nuts the Squirrel who stepped into a couple's vacation picture.
Photo: Squirrel with mountains in background

And my personal favorite, Maru the cat in Japan who loves getting inside bags and boxes!



Tuesday, May 1, 2012

In My Dreams

Watching the Amazing Race always makes me yearn to visit far-away places.  It gives me glimpses of the vast and varied beauty of the world that I will probably never see with my own eyes.

If I had the chance to visit just a few of these places...
If I had to narrow it down to a five...
Where would I go?

(not in any particular order)

The white buildings and blue waters of the Greek Islands have always seemed appealing to me.  Watching "Sisterhood of the Traveling Pants" clinched it.  I want to go there someday!

Isn't this photo amazing?  Japan has serenity and gracefulness that I would love to capture with my camera.  Not the cities.  Just the smaller villages and countryside.

Africa is so different and breathtaking.  Serengeti National Park, the animals, the landscapes, the people.  Another photographer's dream!




The French countryside would be so romantic and picturesque!  The Loire valley, castles, flowers...





I have always wanted to visit Ireland too.  Maybe it's my Irish heritage.  Maybe it's the novels I've read which make Ireland and the people come alive.  And of course it's the beauty!

These are just dreams.
Maybe I'll get to a few of them.
Maybe not.

However, I am so fortunate that I have already been to the most breathtaking place on earth.
This place has been a part of me all of my life. 
This is where I am most at peace.
No matter where I live, it will always be home.





 
Vermont!

Friday, April 27, 2012

Where a Little Bit Means a Lot

Until about 5 years ago, I was always able to eat
just about anything I wanted without gaining weight.

Not true anymore.

I generally try to lose weight before I go on vacation
in the summer and have to wear a bathing suit.

In my closet, I have various sizes of jeans that are
available to fit whatever size I am at the time: 4, 6, or 8.

I may not look heavy to other people.
I am good at wearing looser tops and sweaters to hide
my muffin top.


In fact, I feel bad even mentioning to others that I'm
trying to lose a few pounds.  They look at me like I'm
crazy.  But I know I'm not.

A few months ago, I hit an all-time high weight of 133.
On a 5'2" frame,  this is not healthy.
For a female my age, my ideal weight is about 122 lbs,
within a range of 109-137.

I know I feel great at 122.

But it's amazing how just a few pounds can make such a difference in how I look and feel!


Not so surprising when you look at what 5 lbs of fat looks like.
Put this on my belly where it always accumulates and it's easy to see
why my jeans don't fit!

So, a few months ago, I made a change.
I cut out almost all bread, baked goods, chips, and soda.
And I exercise moderately almost every day.

I eat mainly lean meat, eggs, fresh fruits and veggies, and water.






Once a week, I enjoy a trip to TCBY or Friendly's for a
chocolate soft serve, but other than that,
I snack on fruit or nuts.

 

It was hard at first because I LOVE bread, and I'm at home all day
so it's easy to snack.  But the less I eat all of the junk food, 
the less I WANT to eat it.  The cravings have subsided.
I feel like I am in control now.

I have lost 7 lbs so far.  A pound a week.

I have 4 or 5 more pounds to go.

Pants that I couldn't even begin to zip a few weeks ago
are fitting great now.

A few pounds can make a huge difference in how you look and feel!
A little bit means a lot!

Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Inspiration

We are currently in the middle of track season at our high school.  As with practically everything I do, I love to take pictures of the athletes and post them on Facebook for the kids to see.

As I look at the photos, I can't help but be amazed by their determination and grit. 

As I struggle with getting my own aging body into decent shape,
I see the effort these kids are putting into this sport, and it makes
me want to do better myself.

They INSPIRE me.

This athlete had never pole vaulted until this year.

 This is my daughter, Annie.
Your are witnessing the first time she made the sand pit in the triple jump.



Just look at the determination on the faces of these runners!


I think sometimes as we get older, we just don't try as hard.
We use our age as an excuse. 

A few seconds after I took this picture, #13 banged her shin into the top
of the next hurdle and was on the ground in a tremendous amount of pain. 

I also like to take pictures of the athletes when they are NOT competing.



Especially Annie!
She always seems to be surrounded by other kids,
either telling a story or reacting to one.

It's my secret challenge to catch her with a different expression
at every meet.

She makes me smile!