For the first 50 years of my life, my perfectionist self mistakenly believed it was all about knowing more, getting it right, planning, attempting to prevent bad things from happening, and keeping all of my chicks in a row. It took me this long to discover that the JOURNEY is all that matters. This quote from Gilda Radner sums it all up:

"I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next.
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Saturday, February 15, 2014

Elvis Was a Smart Man

"I believe the key to happiness is: 

someone to love, 

something to do, 

and 

something to look forward to."  

Elvis Presley



Yesterday was Valentine's Day.
It has been our tradition to go out for a romantic dinner at a restaurant.

It started before we had kids -
when we didn't have a lot of money and dressing up for a romantic dinner at a restaurant was not something we did much.
It was special.

We continued the tradition when we had children because,
well,
it was nice to get away and be alone for a few hours.

This year, Vance made a dinner reservation
but I told him to cancel it.
We were going to stay home this year.

After all, we eat out all the time, probably more than we should.
And there are no kids in the house.

So I planned a different Valentine's dinner this year.


I made Vance's favorite dessert
in the shape of a heart.


Whoopie pies!


Continuing with the theme,


I sliced up some potatoes (with my happy polka dot knife)



and cut out some hearts with a cookie cutter.




And finally, 


I made heart-shaped hamburgers.


A simple menu.


yet something you can't get in a restaurant.


and something we haven't done in, well, at least 23 years!


What Elvis said is true.

I had something to do.
I had something to look forward to.
 I had someone to love.

Hence,  I was happy.
WE were happy.



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