For the first 50 years of my life, my perfectionist self mistakenly believed it was all about knowing more, getting it right, planning, attempting to prevent bad things from happening, and keeping all of my chicks in a row. It took me this long to discover that the JOURNEY is all that matters. This quote from Gilda Radner sums it all up:

"I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next.
"


Thursday, June 21, 2018

From Giverny to Ellington

At about this time last year,  my daughter and I had just arrived home from a trip to London and Paris.  It was a wonderful trip, but one of our favorite days was the one spent visiting Monet's house and garden in Giverny, France.




While there were thousands of gorgeous flowers,  
Annie and I were drawn to the poppies.


I purchased a packet of red poppy seeds in the gift shop that day
for planting at home.


The delicate field poppies were everywhere along the roadsides too.



Ever since then,  I have been on a mission to grow poppies of my own.
Very early this spring, when snow was still on the ground, I spread the
packet of seeds from Monet's garden.  I also spread seeds from various
other types of poppies that I had purchased online.


And THEY GREW!


The first ones to blossom were the very delicate California poppies. 




The petals are thinner than crepe paper and the seeds 
are yellow.  I love ALL of the shades of pink, coral and red!




Every morning,  I go outside to see more and more blooms.




I've been picking them daily to enjoy in the house too.




A taller, sturdier variety just began blooming today!


It's very pretty with more layered petals and a darker center.


This is what makes gardening so much fun.  I don't like to see the same
garden year after year.  I'm always moving things around and adding new
flowers that catch my fancy.  Sometimes things work out and sometimes
they are a flop.

It makes me VERY happy that this is a time when THEY GREW!

Thursday, May 3, 2018

Wicked Tulips


 Yesterday, I did something I've never done before.


I went to a tulip farm with my two daughters.


We drove to Johnston, RI to

Tickets are needed in order to enter.  They can be purchased on
their website, but the tickets sell out pretty fast - especially for weekend days.


There were two areas on the farm.  
One field was just for "show".  
Tulips were labeled and planted in groupings.
No picking was allowed here.


The rest of the farm was open for picking
with a charge of $1 per stem.


It was a beautiful day - sunny and warm with a gentle breeze.
There were many colors and varieties of tulips to choose from.






We spent over an hour at the farm, picking flowers and taking pictures.







Before checking out,  we went to a wrapping station to bundle
and count our stems.










After stopping at a store to get a few buckets and some water to help our 
$40 worth of tulips survive the heat, we stopped for dinner 
at Cindy's Diner in North Scituate, RI.





Chocolate milk shakes, grilled cheese, french fries, hamburger -  everything
was soooo good!  And it was a very friendly atmosphere too!



When I got home,  I made two beautiful arrangements!
Putting them in ice water revived the drooping tulips.


I'm so happy that both of my girls live close enough
for us to be able to do things together. 
It was a very simple day,
but a very good day!


                   *****************************************************************************
Do your tulips droop when you put them in a vase?

 Try this.

The reason they droop is that the stems are hollow and
as they attempt to soak up the water, they get air bubbles
that can't escape inside the stem.  The air bubble prevents
water from going up to the flower.

If you poke a hole in the stem right below the flower
with a pin or toothpick, the stem will remain straight
and won't droop!  Try it!

(I hear this also works for other hollow-stemmed flowers
such as Gerbera Daisies.)



Sunday, April 22, 2018

A Different Birthday Blog

I have a standing tradition of posting a blog on the birthday of each of my kids to celebrate their lives in a special way.  In the past,  I've included lots of pictures.  I have thousands of pictures from their childhood days, school events, and family times to draw from.  

Today I am faced with a dilemma.

It is unlike dilemma's I've faced in years past,  such as whether or not it's time to potty-train
or what time to set a curfew for teenagers. 

For the first time, this year,  I feel like it isn't appropriate anymore to post pictures of my angel-faced little boy at different stages of childhood.  BUT, at the same time, I also don't feel it's appropriate to brag about my grown-up son and how wonderful he is - not to mention how I just scrolled through my phone and don't have a single photo of Adam from the recent past.  

The funny thing is this:  I don't wish I could go back in time.  I don't wish that my son was still a teenager struggling to find himself.  I'm happy that Adam is a successful man who has a meaningful career, living in a city that he loves.  I love that he's happy with himself and his life.  I am proud of who he is and look forward to all the future has to offer him.

A wise person once said there are two important gifts a mother can give to her child.  The first is roots.  The second is wings.

  Check.
  Done.  
  Finito. 

Since this is a birthday blog,  I have one more thing to do before I'm done.

Adam,  I have known you and loved you longer than any 
other person on this earth - 27 years to be exact.  

I wish you the happiest of days, today and always!

(see you next weekend!)

Love,  

Mom






Tuesday, April 10, 2018

Happy National Siblings Day to My Sister, Lori!


I did not get my love of photography from my parents.  

On this National Siblings Day, 
I was hard pressed to find decent photos of
me and my sister, Lori, before the age of 20.
The ones that I show here are from our old 
"home movies"
that replaced real photos in our house at about the
same time that my sister was born.

Nonetheless, I was able to capture screen shots from these
grainy, blurry 8 mm film reels to create some of 
our history together as young children.


I am 4 years older than my sister, Lori.  We used to ride
the mechanical horse together when my mom took us to 
the laundromat .


This actual photo was taken the day of Lori's baptism.  
She was held by Aunt Connie as I looked on adoringly.


Here we are running down the sand dunes on Cape Cod.


Most likely on the same trip, we were splashed by a giant wave
on the beach with my mom.


This was Christmas morning with our snap-on curlers still in our hair.


I believe this was filmed when we were on our way back
from the camp store with ice cream treats.


Another beach picture - this time with my dad.
I still remember this bathing suit - but I don't remember what
those strategically placed emblems were on my patriotic
bathing suit!  Stars?  Mom, what were you thinking?


We were twins in our red Danskin shirts 
 in Florida that year.


I don't know who took this once-in-a-lifetime shot, but it was taken at 
the Canadian Open with my heart-throb - Jack Nicklaus -
and only half of me made it in the picture!


There have been many good pictures since then.




And I hope there will be many, many more!

On the National Siblings Day 2018,

I hope you know how important you are to me.
I hope you know I am always here for you.
I hope you know how much I love you!