For the first 50 years of my life, my perfectionist self mistakenly believed it was all about knowing more, getting it right, planning, attempting to prevent bad things from happening, and keeping all of my chicks in a row. It took me this long to discover that the JOURNEY is all that matters. This quote from Gilda Radner sums it all up:

"I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next.
"


Friday, March 24, 2017

Parenting-Our First Year

Parenting...
It's been quite a journey.

My winter project that I've been plugging away at 
is to digitalize my old negatives.  It's a bit tedious
at times, scanning and retouching pictures to fix
the color and get rid of dust.

Despite the long hours I've been spending,
it brings me pleasure.
There were so many happy times.
I've been so fortunate.

Our first year of parenting was full of joy
and oftentimes uncertainty.  After being married
to each other for 7 years,  we knew how to do 
the "couple" thing.  With the birth of our son, Adam,
we needed to navigate entirely new waters.

I'd like to share pictures of our first year as parents.
With only one child,  we were able to take lots of pictures
of each other with Adam.  There was always a set of 
empty hands.  


A mom for only a minute.


A dad for almost a day!




First trip to Burlington.










First vacation.










First visit to the pumpkin patch.



First Halloween.



Baptism day.


First Thanksgiving at Grandma and Papa's house.


First visit to the mall to see Santa.


First Christmas (and 3 months pregnant).


First time at Disney World.



First (and only) speedo bathing suit.


First (and only) tennis outfit.
At a year old,  Adam couldn't have looked more
like his dad!

Kerry would be born 2 1/2 months later.
We were ready to expand our duties
and our love.