For the first 50 years of my life, my perfectionist self mistakenly believed it was all about knowing more, getting it right, planning, attempting to prevent bad things from happening, and keeping all of my chicks in a row. It took me this long to discover that the JOURNEY is all that matters. This quote from Gilda Radner sums it all up:

"I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next.
"


Tuesday, April 10, 2018

Happy National Siblings Day to My Sister, Lori!


I did not get my love of photography from my parents.  

On this National Siblings Day, 
I was hard pressed to find decent photos of
me and my sister, Lori, before the age of 20.
The ones that I show here are from our old 
"home movies"
that replaced real photos in our house at about the
same time that my sister was born.

Nonetheless, I was able to capture screen shots from these
grainy, blurry 8 mm film reels to create some of 
our history together as young children.


I am 4 years older than my sister, Lori.  We used to ride
the mechanical horse together when my mom took us to 
the laundromat .


This actual photo was taken the day of Lori's baptism.  
She was held by Aunt Connie as I looked on adoringly.


Here we are running down the sand dunes on Cape Cod.


Most likely on the same trip, we were splashed by a giant wave
on the beach with my mom.


This was Christmas morning with our snap-on curlers still in our hair.


I believe this was filmed when we were on our way back
from the camp store with ice cream treats.


Another beach picture - this time with my dad.
I still remember this bathing suit - but I don't remember what
those strategically placed emblems were on my patriotic
bathing suit!  Stars?  Mom, what were you thinking?


We were twins in our red Danskin shirts 
 in Florida that year.


I don't know who took this once-in-a-lifetime shot, but it was taken at 
the Canadian Open with my heart-throb - Jack Nicklaus -
and only half of me made it in the picture!


There have been many good pictures since then.




And I hope there will be many, many more!

On the National Siblings Day 2018,

I hope you know how important you are to me.
I hope you know I am always here for you.
I hope you know how much I love you!


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