For the first 50 years of my life, my perfectionist self mistakenly believed it was all about knowing more, getting it right, planning, attempting to prevent bad things from happening, and keeping all of my chicks in a row. It took me this long to discover that the JOURNEY is all that matters. This quote from Gilda Radner sums it all up:

"I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next.
"


Thursday, June 4, 2015

Beauty and the Beast (aka Annie and Jerome)


This is a story of a beautiful girl who meets a gruff beast,
sees beyond his less than handsome exterior
to his sweet inner side
and
falls in love.


Annie is the beauty.


This is the beast.  Jerome.  

It all began in May when I went to Rochester to move Annie 
into her first apartment.  An important part of making
her apartment feel homey was, of course, getting a cat.

We went to Lollypop Farm,  the local humane society, 
to hopefully meet the cat of her dreams.

And we did.


Jerome was a stray who was brought to Lollypop Farm in April.
He is thought to be around 8 years old.  
He is overweight (@20 lbs) with deformed ears,
a funny looking nose, bad dandruff, and a very grumpy face.
Around his neck was a red bandana.
Lollypop Farm staff had named him "Jerome".

The minute Annie sat on the couch next to him in the cat room,
he climbed onto her lap and began purring.
Sold.

 He was too heavy for the cardboard crates most cats get sent home in,  so Lollypop Farm graciously loaned Annie a solid cat carrier
for her trip home.




After a long car ride as we gathered the essentials
for cat care,  we brought Jerome home.  He was
a little unsure at first,  hiding in the corner of the bathroom.
But after a few minutes,  he began to walk (waddle) around.



He ate (not a surprise).


Mostly, he just followed Annie around.


And she responded by giving him lots of love.




We tried to get him to play, but he wasn't interested.
I guess there was too much to take in.


The vet thinks maybe he had experienced frostbite on his nose and ears in his days outside as a stray in the winter.  He also snores, possibly due to damaged nasal passages from frostbite, or maybe due to his obesity.


He must have been really matted because his tail was shaved and his fur was chopped short all over his body.


He was unable to get up on the couch,  but loved it when Annie
gave him a lift up.


He also likes the throw rug in the kitchen,


and the bathmat in the bathroom.


Annie couldn't be happier with her choice!



If she hadn't fallen completely in love already,




he finished the job when he lay next to her on her makeshift bed
and put his paw on her arm, then rested his head on her arm as he relaxed even more.


I woke up the next morning to this...




Pretty darn amazing!

Since I left,  the two have continued to bond.  
Annie sends me pictures almost every day.








Under Annie's care,  Jerome has lost at least 3 lbs.,
he is able to jump onto the couch by himself,
and he has begun to play.

With time,  his fur will grow in and his weight will
continue to go down.  I can't wait to see the transformation!


I don't think Annie could have found a better companion.
I feel good knowing she's not alone.
Thanks, Jerome!  

Saturday, May 30, 2015

My Southern Grandson

One very important reason to visit my daughter, Kerry, 
in Nashville was to meet my first grandson, Fletcher.  
She got Fletcher as a kitten about a week after 
she moved in, and he is about a year old now. 


When we first arrived,  he was a little wary of us.


He is such a handsome cat!


He is very much loved.


Fletch didn't shy away from the camera.




He was so photogenic that I took a LOT of pictures.



He is a very playful cat, and that's how we made friends.




I bought the playhouse for him (seen in this picture) 
when he was just a baby.
It made me happy to see him using it so much!










He loves to ride in the car too!



He's an indoor cat,  but Kerry takes him outside on a leash.








He's a very easy going cat!
  The whole family loved him!



It would be nice if he lived a little closer!


Just imagine 
if I had a human grandchild
how many pictures
I would take!