For the first 50 years of my life, my perfectionist self mistakenly believed it was all about knowing more, getting it right, planning, attempting to prevent bad things from happening, and keeping all of my chicks in a row. It took me this long to discover that the JOURNEY is all that matters. This quote from Gilda Radner sums it all up:

"I wanted a perfect ending. Now I've learned, the hard way, that some poems don't rhyme, and some stories don't have a clear beginning, middle, and end. Life is about not knowing, having to change, taking the moment and making the best of it, without knowing what's going to happen next.
"


Thursday, May 5, 2016

Living With the Locals in Pacific Heights


When we went to San Francisco with the kids many years ago, 
 we stayed in a hotel in the business district near the cable cars.   
I didn't want to do all of the touristy things on this trip.  I wanted to 
stay in a quiet neighborhood with quaint restaurants and shops.


I looked on Airbnb for San Francisco and found 
this beautiful apartment in a Victorian house just
a few blocks from Fillmore Street.


We were met at the front door by the owner, Christie, who lives in the upstairs apartment.  There was an locked entryway from the street leading to the doors to each of the apartments.


We entered into the sitting room which had a writing desk with information about San Francisco and the neighborhood.


To the left was the front room which had a 
beautiful old piano, sofa, and television.





Walking to the back of the house, you came to the kitchen.
It was very clean and stocked with everything you'd need
to cook - although I wasn't planning on doing any of that!


Walking straight through the kitchen, there were stairs to a cute outside deck.


Next to the stairs was the bedroom.  
There was a full closet to store our things in.





The bathroom was small, but nice.


After recommending a few really good neighborhood 
restaurants and answering our questions, 
Christie gave us our keys and left us alone. 

We were hungry, so we decided to try one of 
Christie's recommendations: Curbside Cafe.


We had an excellent lunch!  It was so good, 
we went back for dinner!



Fillmore Street is a fun, lively street with plenty of small boutiques, restaurants, and bars.  It seemed like many locals eat out a lot because the waiters in the restaurants seemed to know many patrons by name.


For breakfast we tried this wonderful bakery.


And for dessert, we frequented Smitten Ice Cream.


Their ice cream is made-to-order.  Right after you order, they churn your ice cream fresh.  They use liquid nitrogen for an ultra-cold freezing process and it is ready in just a few minutes. 




To celebrate our anniversary,  we ate dinner at Via Veneto, and were treated to a delicious Italian meal.  The owner brought us two after-dinner drinks on the house!


On our final night,  we had pizza at Pizzeria Delfina because
we noticed there was a line out the door every night.  The pizza
was extremely good, but the dessert was even better.
We each got an Amarena Cherry Sundae.  
It came with your choice of gelato, a pitcher of hot chocolate sauce
so you would never run out, and fresh whipped cream.


We loved them!


You might think all we did was eat.  
We went other places too-  Sausalito, Japantown,
Fort Pointe under the Golden Gate Bridge.  But I'd say 
eating occupied a large part of our time!

This neighborhood is in Pacific Heights.  It was relaxing 
to be able to walk to restaurants easily and not deal with
driving and finding a place to park the car.  I'd highly recommend
it for your next trip to San Francisco!

Vance had to leave for a few days for business, 
so I had two days to explore on my own.  
I'll tell you about that in my next post.

Wednesday, May 4, 2016

Day-tripping in Big Sur

A few weeks ago, we celebrated our 32nd wedding anniversary with a trip to the San Francisco area.  We spent a few days in Monterey before heading to the city.  The weather was not great. It was windy and cloudy for the most part, with periods of sun and rain.  But we kept busy and enjoyed our time together.


The first thing we did was the 17-mile drive which primarily winds around the different links of the Pebble Beach Golf Resort and surrounding hotels and homes.  It costs $10 per car to enter the road.  I, personally, was not very interested in seeing the golf courses, and the views of the ocean were nice, but nothing compared to the drive along Big Sur.  The only thing that really caught my eye was the Lone Cypress tree which has been called one of the most photographed trees in America.  It is the logo for Pebble Beach.



I much preferred the drive along Big Sur.  Big Sur is a 90 mile long stretch of scenic Route 1 south of Carmel.  It is a rugged coastline with misty mountains bordering seaside cliffs.  There are many, many pull-offs to stop and enjoy the beautiful views and take pictures.


At one stop, we looked down from high above, happy to spot a family of harbor seals on the rocks below.  I was very glad I brought my 400mm lens too!




At many of the pull-offs, there were steep paths down the cliffs to get closer to the water.  I went down to see the unusual flowers and vegetation.  


Vance preferred to stay up on the flats.


One of the landmarks I was looking forward to seeing was the Bixby Bridge.


The Bixby Bridge is a graceful concrete span bridge rising 260 feet above a canyon.


It was very impressive!


We also stopped at McWay Falls.


We parked at Julia Pfeiffer Burns State Park and took a short trail to a tunnel which brought us to a coastline trail to the falls.  


We were surprised to see a small spout of water running over the cliffs onto the sands.  I guess we were expecting something larger.  


I think I was more interested in the writing in the sand, wondering how someone was able to get down to the beach below.


In the distance, on the cliffside, I could see areas with small, white flowers.


When I got closer,  I realized these are the same white daisy-like flowers with blue/purple centers that are only sold in pots at the garden center at home, but grow wild here.


There is my handsome husband!


Walking back to the car, I admired this unusual flower spike growing in the rocky soil.


It was really quite beautiful!


We stopped for lunch at a wonderful restaurant named Nepenthe, high on the cliffs with a fantastic view of the mountains and ocean.


The food was just as amazing as the view!


When we got back to Monterey later in the afternoon, we decided to go inside and see the Monterey Aquarium.  Unfortunately, so did most of the other tourists in town.  But there were some amazing displays of sea life.



We finished the day the same way we did the day before - in the hotel lounge, by the fire,  drinking Margaritas, and listening to a live jazz band.


On the morning of our third day,  we packed up and headed to San Francisco, stopping along the way in Santa Clara to visit Vance's aunt, uncle, and cousins!


After MANY attempts, we finally managed to use the timer function
 on the iPhone to get a group picture!

I enjoyed the natural beauty of the coastline in Big Sur, but I was anxious to get to our beautiful Airbnb apartment in a victorian house in the Pacific Heights section of the city.